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How to Do Physical Therapy Exercises for the Feet

Posted: 18 Jan 2017 04:00 PM PST

The human foot is made of 26 bones and approximately 100 muscles, tendons, and ligaments. It is also the part of the body that bears the most weight, so it is not uncommon to suffer from foot pain or diagnosed foot problems at some point in your life. Painful foot problems include bunions, pronation, fallen arches, hammertoes, plantar fasciitis and tight, cramping muscles. You can fix many of these problems by performing foot exercises to stretch the muscles and reduce tension.

EditSteps

EditPerforming Foot Strengthening Exercises

  1. Seek advice. If you are experiencing foot or ankle pain, you need to get advice from your doctor or podiatrist. If the pain does not go away, even with rest, ice, and elevation, you may have a fracture. This is even more likely if there is swelling, bruising, or discoloration. You will need to seek medical treatment and get an X-ray to confirm or rule out this possibility.
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    • If you do have a fracture or other injury such as the ones mentioned above, ask your doctor if there are prescribed physical therapy exercises that you can do.[1]
  2. Try toe lifts. Sit in a chair with your feet flat on the floor. Lift your big toe up off the floor slightly while leaving the other four down. Practice this to the point where you can eventually raise up all five toes, one at the time, beginning with the big toe and ending with the fifth toe. Then practice lowering each toe one at a time, beginning with the fifth toe and ending with the big toe. Do two sets of 15.
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    • If you find this difficult at first, just raise your big toe up and down until you get the hang of it. Move slowly through your toes, working up to where you can do all five.
    • This exercise is meant to strengthen the extenders, one of the groups of muscles which move the toes up and down. Strong extenders and flexors can help greatly with gait and balance and thus help prevent foot injuries from accidents, according to the Summit Medical Group.[2][3][4]
  3. Do toe curls. Place a towel on the ground under your right foot. Stretch your toes out and pull them back in to grip the material with your toes. Lift the cloth one to two inches off the ground and hold for five seconds. Lower it to the ground. Repeat five times. Then repeat on the left side.
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    • Relax your muscles between each grip.
    • Work up to holding the grip for 10 seconds at a time.
    • Toe curls focus primarily on strengthening the toe flexors.
  4. Pick up marbles. Place 20 marbles and a small bowl on the ground. Sit on the couch or in a chair, relaxed all the way back. With one foot, pick up one marble at a time and place it in the bowl. Then empty the marbles out and do the same thing with your other foot. This exercise will strengthen the intrinsic and extrinsic muscles in the feet. It is also helpful for plantar fasciitis but also for injuries like turf toe, a term use for injury to the great toe caused by hyperextension.[5]
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  5. Write the alphabet. Sit on the couch, relaxed against the back. Extend one of your legs and raise one foot several inches off the ground. Trace the alphabet in the air using your big toe as a "pencil." Then switch legs and do the same with the opposite big toe. This exercise helps to strengthen the extensor and flexor muscles in the foot.
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    • It can also help with plantar fasciitis and turf toe, among other foot conditions. It is especially effective in ankle rehabilitation.
    • Keep your movements small. Just use your ankle, foot, and toe.[7]
  6. Do a toe extension. Wrap a rubber band around the middle of all five of your toes on your right foot. It should have medium resistance so that it will give slightly. Stretch all of your toes apart. This will cause the band to stretch as far as it will go. Hold the stretch for five seconds and then relax your toes. Perform this stretch five times on each foot.
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    • Make sure to relax for approximately five seconds.
    • This strengthens the extrinsic and intrinsic muscles of the foot and is used in the treatment of both plantar fasciitis and turf toe.[8]
  7. Try a big toe pull. Loop the rubber band between the big toe on your right foot and the big toe on your left. Place your feet together. Pull your toes apart while trying to keep your ankles together. Stretch the rubber band as far as you can, then relax. Relax for five seconds in between stretches and repeat five times.
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    • This exercise strengthens the extrinsic and intrinsic muscles in the feet.
  8. Do resistant ankle inversion. Sit on the floor with legs stretched out in front of you. Attach one end of a therapy band to a stationary object, such as the leg of a heavy table. The table should be beside you, down at your feet. Loop the other end of the band around the ball of your foot. The table leg will be off to the side. The loop of the band will wrap around the ball of your foot and extend out beside you toward the table. Using the band for resistance, move your ankle away from the table, pulling against the band to stretch it out.
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    • Do two sets of 15.
    • This exercise can help to strengthen the malleolus and tibialis muscles on either side of the ankle. It can also help prevent or treat sprains.[9]
  9. Perform resistant ankle eversion. This exercise is very similar to the inversion. Sit on the floor with legs stretched out in front of you. With the band in the same position as with the inversion, move the loop of the resistance band down so that it is against the arch of the foot instead of the ball. Move your foot up and out against the therapy band.
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    • Do two sets of 15.
    • This exercise can help to strengthen the peroneal and tibialis muscles on both sides of your ankle. It can also help treat or prevent sprains.[10]
  10. Do calf raises. Stand straight in front of a wall, counter, or other stable object. Place your hands gently on the wall in front of you. Raise yourself onto your toes in a calf raise exercise. From this raised-toe position, lower your feet to the ground again while keeping yourself balanced with your hands against the wall. Repeat 10 times, making sure to lower yourself slowly to the ground.
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    • For an extra challenge, try raising yourself on 1 foot at a time, and doing 10 reps with each foot.[11][12][13]

EditDoing Foot and Ankle Stretching Exercises

  1. Test your ankle range of motion. Sit with your legs stretched straight out in front of you. Without moving legs, point your feet backward towards your body as far as they will comfortably go. Hold for 10 seconds. Then, point your toes down away from your body. Hold for 10 more seconds. Next, point toes towards the opposite foot and hold for 10 seconds. Then, point your toes away from the opposite foot and hold for 10 more seconds. Lastly, move the ankles 10 times clockwise and 10 times counterclockwise.
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    • This exercise was developed by the Summit Medical Group, a rehabilitation center, to help increase the range of motion or flexibility of the ankles.
    • According to Summit, increased flexibility and strength in the ankle muscles, especially the tibialis muscles, can help to greatly reduce injuries such as sprains.
    • Use this series as a warm-up for the remaining stretching exercises.[14]
  2. Do plantar flexion. This stretch is similar to the warm up, but it is a more targeted stretch. Sit against the couch with your feet straight out in front of you, so that they are perpendicular to your legs. Flex your feet back towards you as far as they will go while keeping your legs flat on the ground. Try to keep your feet extended, so your toes and heels move in a straight line. Hold for five seconds. Relax and then push your toes away from the body as far as they will go.
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    • Repeat 15 times, moving both feet at the same time. You can also do this exercise while you are lying down.
    • To get a deeper stretch, you can use an elastic band.
    • Pointing the toes away from the body helps to strengthen the muscles in the calves.
  3. Try dorsiflexion. Sit in a chair and flex your right foot. Loop a large towel under your foot. Pull on the ends of the towel and pull it toward you. Stretch your toes towards you as far as you can while remaining comfortable. Hold stretch for 10 seconds and repeat 3 times with each foot.
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    • This stretches the muscles in the shins. Flexible shins, like calves, are important for full recovery from plantar fasciitis.
    • You can also do this with a resistance band on the floor. Hook the band around a table leg. Walk away from the table and loop your foot in the band. Bring your toes toward you, pulling against the band.[15]
  4. Do an Achilles stretch. Stand on a stair. Move until you are only standing on the stair with the balls of your feet. Hold onto the railings or wall on both sides for balance. Slowly lower your heel towards the step below you until you feel the stretching in the calf muscles. Hold this pose for 15-30 seconds, then relax. Do three reps.
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    • This exercise helps stretch out the muscles of the calf. Calf muscle stretching, according to the American Orthopedic Foot and Ankle Society, is integral to the treatment of plantar fasciitis. This is because excessively tight calf muscles make it more difficult to properly flex and stretch the heel. This is necessary to help recover from this painful condition. [16][17]
  5. Perform a standing calf stretch. Stand facing the wall with hands resting on the wall for balance. Step forward with one leg and bend the knee slightly. Stretch the other leg behind you so that your heel is resting on the floor. Then, lean slowly into the wall until you feel the stretching in your calf. Hold for 15–30 seconds and do three reps.
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    • This exercise stretches the soleus, one of the major muscles in the calf.[18].
  6. Stretch your toe flexors. Stand facing the wall, placing your hands on the wall for balance. Stretch your leg out behind you and point your foot, placing the top of your foot on the ground. Relax and feel the stretching in the ankle. Hold this pose for 15–30 seconds, stopping to rest for a moment if you feel any cramping in the toes. Do three reps on each foot.
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    • Work yourself up to holding the stance for one minute.
    • This is designed to stretch out the flexors muscles in the foot, which help you move the feet in relation to the leg.[19]

EditMassaging Your Feet

  1. Know the importance of massage. Doctors and clinics such as the Sports Injuries Clinic endorse foot massage. They are relaxing, but massages also increase circulation to the feet. They also help prevent injuries such as muscle strains or sprains.[20]
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  2. Perform a ball roll. Sit on a chair and place a tennis, lacrosse, or golf ball under the ball of your right foot (a tennis ball is probably the most comfortable for your foot). Roll the ball with your feet, moving the ball along the bottom of your foot from ball to heel. Continue the movement for two minutes. You should feel the massage throughout your foot.
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    • Try moving the ball up and down and in circles to increase the efficacy of the massage. Repeat on left foot for 2 minutes.[21]
  3. Give yourself a plantar fascia massage. While sitting on the chair, place your right foot on top of your left thigh. Use your thumb to gently work circles into your arch. Run your hands up and down your foot, releasing the muscles through the whole foot. Place your fingers between your toes as if you were holding hands with your feet. Keep this position with your toes spread for 30 seconds. Massage each toe to release extra tension.[22]
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EditTips

  • Before you start this plan, first consult a physician or a physical therapist to see what specific exercises are appropriate for a specific goal.
  • Do not ignore any pain resulting from an exercise. Report this to the physician or physical therapist immediately for further instructions to prevent an injury or re-injury during the conditioning.
  • If your feet seem particularly sore, soak them in a combination of warm water and Epsom salts. These salts have been shown to relieve pain, stiffness, and muscle cramping. Soak 10–20 minutes or until water cools down.
  • You should notify your doctor or physical therapist if the pain is new or worse than normal, is at a five or above on a standard one to 10 pain scale, makes it hard to walk or put weight upon the foot, feels different or more intense than previously experienced, or is accompanied by any redness, swelling or discoloration.

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How to Have an Emotionally Healthy Divorce

Posted: 18 Jan 2017 08:00 AM PST

Dealing with divorce can be one of the most challenging and stressful experiences of one's life. It can be difficult to get through a divorce while dealing with the emotions that come along with it. To have an emotionally healthy divorce, find ways to communicate with your ex and take care of yourself. If you have children, help them understand why you're getting divorced, and help them adjust to this new way of life.

EditSteps

EditCommunicating With Your Ex

  1. Avoid being combative. Because of what you might hear/see on TV and from others who have gotten divorced, you may think that getting divorced has to be a big fight. The truth is, however, that it doesn't. Keeping this in mind can help you from being defensive.[1]
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    • Try to get on the same page with your ex. If you can be on the same page then it will make the whole process easier.
    • Understand that this doesn't mean that you can avoid experiencing negative emotions. Divorce is almost always painful, so you'll have to deal with those feelings of loss. Most people experience anger, grief, fear, and anxiety when going through a divorce.[2]
    • If you are able to find a way to be civil and productive together, you may even be able to finalize your divorce without wasting time and money on a lawyer.
  2. Limit emotional communication. There are likely many things that have happened in your relationship that you haven't been able to work out with each other. There is little point in going through it over and over again. Agree to let the past stay in the past, and consider this a new beginning for whatever relationship you might have with your ex.[3]
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    • If you have no reason to communicate with your ex after the divorce then this should be easy. Keep your communications with your ex strictly business. Don't talk about how you're feeling or ask how your ex is feeling. Take care of the details of the divorce and move on.
    • If you want to have some type of friendly relationship with your ex (for whatever reason), then agree with one another that all past hurts and disagreements are to stay in the past.
    • It may be easier said than done, but do your best to keep your communication in the present tense, and try to keep your talks as positive as possible.
  3. Set aside anger. You will no doubt be feeling a lot of different emotions when you are going through a divorce. Many of these emotions may be very negative. Do your best to stay positive when communicating with your ex.[4]
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    • This is especially important if you have children together. Move the focus off of your failed relationship, and focus on how you can work together to raise your children.
    • Anger, shock, and blaming the other spouse for the failure of the marriage are all common reactions to divorce. You shouldn't ignore them or suppress them, but try to put them aside when you are communicating with your ex, then work through them with the assistance of a therapist or using healthy coping tools, like journaling.
  4. Make requests, not demands. When you are negotiating the divorce with your ex, try to remain civil. If you want something, don't demand it. Even if you mean it as a request, stating something that you want without wording it carefully can lead to misunderstandings and anger.[5]
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    • For example, if you want to sell the home you bought together then don't say, "We are selling the house." This sounds like a demand even if you didn't mean it that way. Instead, try saying it like this, "What do you think about selling the house and splitting the money from the sale 50/50?" This gives your ex a chance to express their feelings about it rather than feeling that they need to defend themselves.

EditTaking Care of Yourself

  1. Make time for yourself. Especially if you have children, you may neglect yourself during your divorce. You may be too worried about helping your children or other family members understand the divorce to think about yourself; however, it is important that you make time to care for yourself.[6]
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    • Find time to do something that you find enjoyable, whatever that may be. If you really like going to the movies, then do that. If you like to paint, then paint. If you want to get a massage, then do that. It's important to find a bit of happiness during this time.
    • If you don't have much time or money, don't worry. Making time for yourself can be as simple as making yourself a good cup of coffee or taking a relaxing bath.
  2. Allow time to heal. It's important to understand that a divorce is a loss, and the feelings may be similar to those you might feel when someone close to you dies. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of this relationship instead of thinking you have to stuff the emotions down.[7]
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    • Remember that going through the grieving process, no matter how difficult, is important for healing and moving on.
    • You may experience a range of emotions that range from denial and anger to sadness and acceptance. Don't beat yourself down for feeling any of these emotions as they are simply a part of the process of grieving.[8]
    • Allow yourself to feel these feelings and process them however you need to. For example, you might simply want to lay in bed and cry, or you might want to write down everything you're feeling in a journal, or you might talk about how you're feeling with someone you trust.[9]
  3. Consider therapy. Talking about your divorce and your feelings about it with a trained professional can be an excellent way to get through the divorce. It may feel weird at first to talk with a stranger about such an intimate topic, but therapists are trained to help you deal with difficult emotions.[10]
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    • One big advantage of talking to a therapist is that you are talking with someone who is trained to be objective about the situation, and who is also outside the situation. Talking with friends and family members is good too, but these people will have a more difficult time being objective because they may know your ex, and have their own opinions about the divorce.
    • A therapist may also be able to help you find ways to communicate with your ex effectively.
  4. Lean on friends and family. In addition to seeing a professional, talking with family and friends that you trust can be very helpful. People who have strong support systems are typically better able to deal with difficult situations.[11]
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    • You can also look for a local or online support group where you can listen to the stories of others, and ask for advice from fellow divorcees.
    • Some people feel like they have to give you their opinions and advice in order to show that they are interested in what you are saying. If all you want to do is get it out, then say that. Most people will be happy to simply listen and say, "I understand."
    • If you don't feel comfortable talking with anyone about your emotions, then at least try to spend some time writing about how you feel. It is important that you get the emotions out somehow.
  5. Give yourself a break. If you have the time and money, treat yourself to a spa day or a vacation. If you don't, then just let yourself off of the hook for a day or two. This doesn't mean you should neglect your children or not show up to work without telling anyone, but you can give yourself a little break from all of the responsibilities you normally worry about.[12]
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    • For example, if you have a few extra vacation days, then consider taking them to just relax and do something you enjoy.
    • If you are normally very strict with yourself about eating healthy and going to gym, then allow yourself to forget about it for a day or two. Eat what you want and be lazy. In general, these things will help you move on, but giving yourself a little break can feel like a treat.
  6. Get involved in something positive. After you let yourself go just a little bit, try to re-commit yourself to something good. This can be whatever you want it to be, but try to choose something that will be beneficial for your well-being. Finding the positive aspects of your divorce will help you find happiness again.[13]
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    • For example, if you love animals, you could start volunteering your spare time at a local shelter. If you enjoy art, you could take a class in painting or sculpting. If exercise helps you work off stress, then consider joining a gym.

EditHelping Children Deal With Divorce

  1. Reassure your children. When you tell your children that you are getting divorced, they may experience a range of emotions; however, the biggest emotion is likely to be a feeling of insecurity and uncertainty. Explain to them that the divorce is not their fault and that both of you still love them a lot.[14]
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    • For example, you can say, "Together, we have decided that the best thing for everyone is if we don't live together anymore. This will be tough for everyone at first, but we'll get through it as best we can. The most important thing you should understand is that we both love you very much, and our decision is nobody's fault."
    • If you and your ex will be sharing custody, make sure that your children understand that they aren't being asked to choose between you and your ex.
    • If one of you will have sole custody of the children, one of you will need to explain why this is. For example, if you will have sole custody of your children you can say, "Right now, Dad (or Mom) has some things (s)he needs to work on so you won't be able to see him (or her) too often. Try not to worry. He (she) loves you very much, and is doing his (her) best."
  2. Avoid saying negative things about your ex. When you are dealing with a lot of emotions, you may unintentionally say bad things about your ex. Focus all of your efforts on not doing this in front of your children. It is important to recognize that your children may be struggling to understand what divorce means for them. If you say negative things about their other parent, they will feel as though they have to choose.[15]
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    • Even if your ex has really hurt you, try to remember that your child loves them. Your ex may have hurt you, but that doesn't mean your child should be hurt, too. If you feel the need to say something to your children about how you're feeling, you could say something like, "Mommy and daddy both tried very hard, but in the end, we just couldn't make it work. I feel very sad about how things worked out, but you don't need to think that you can't love both of us."
    • You should also avoid using your children to communicate with your ex. For example, saying "Tell your mother that she needs to come get this last box of her stuff" is not appropriate. Your children are not couriers and are not there to pass information along to your ex. If you need to talk to them, text, call, email — reach out to them directly.
  3. Let them express their emotions. Your child may experience a whole range of emotions, just like you are probably experiencing. Try to listen to what they are expressing before reacting.[16]
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    • For example, if your child gets angry and yells at you, don't react before giving yourself a chance to see where this emotion is coming from. Don't just scold them and send them to their room. Instead, say something like, "It seems like you're pretty angry. What is making you feel so angry?"
  4. Ask your children questions. Your child may want to talk about the divorce, but may not know what to say or where to begin. To help them, try asking open-ended questions about how they are feeling or what they think about the divorce.[17]
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    • You can also ask them about any concerns they might have. For example, they might be concerned about how often they will get to spend time with the other parent, or if they will have to change schools.
    • It's important to keep questions open-ended. For example, if you want to ask them their feelings about the divorce, don't say, "Are you feeling sad about the divorce?" Instead, say, "What feelings do you have about our divorce?" If they give you a one-word answer (e.g. "sad," "mad," "scared") try respond with another question. For example, if they say they are sad, then say, "What about the divorce makes you feel sad?"
    • Don't push it. Though you should try to regularly ask questions to help them process their thoughts, if they seem reluctant to talk, then don't keep pushing them. If they don't want to talk, then come back and ask again another day.
  5. Be happy when they go see the other parent. If you are sharing custody with your ex, then don't let your child see you upset when they leave, even if you are. If your child sees that you are upset, they may feel guilty and unable to enjoy time with the other parent.[18]
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    • Be sure to smile when they leave. If you want to say something, then you can say, "Have a great time with Dad (or Mom)! I know they can't wait to see you!"

EditMoving Forward

  1. Resolve logistical issues. There are a lot of practical matters that you're going to have to deal with during the divorce, especially if you have kids together. Work on getting these matters resolved as quickly and smoothly as possible so that you can focus on the process of moving on with your life.[19]
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    • For example, if you have kids together, you're going to have to figure out how you're going to share custody (or if you are at all). Until this is managed, it's going to be difficult to move forward.
    • If you have a home that you've purchased together, you're going to have to figure how to split the things inside the home (e.g. furniture, electronics, etc.), and what to do with the house. Will one of you continue living in the home, or should you sell it?
  2. Process your emotions. As you move forward, you will probably have good days and bad days when it comes to dealing with your emotions. You may feel fine and think you're finally healing, and then wake up one morning feeling hopeless. This is all part of the grieving process, and you should expect to have some setbacks along the way.[20]
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    • Keep in mind you and your ex will likely be processing your emotions at different times. It often happens that the spouse who initiates the divorce began the process long before the legal act of divorcing — possibly even years before. The spouse who did not initiate the divorce, however, will likely just start processing the emotions (shock, anger, disillusionment, fear, etc.) when asked for a divorce. Try to understand that you and your ex may not be on the same page emotionally while going through the process and have empathy for whatever your ex is experiencing.
    • Remember that processing emotions is an active process, not a passive one. While you can just sit and stew in your emotions, you'll probably do better if you find ways to actively deal with your emotions. For example, through talking with a professional or with a trusted family member or through journaling. You can also try other methods such as expressing feelings through a creative activity (such as painting or music).
    • Many people find exercise to be a great way to deal with negative emotions. A tough workout that gets you sweating and out of breath will help you work off some steam. Try taking a boxing class where you can let out anger in a healthy way.
  3. Set goals. Now that you are divorced, your life is different. You may have more free time, and you now have one less person to answer to. Take this new life you have and set goals for it. Although divorce is difficult, try to look at the positive. You now have an opportunity to reinvent your life.[21]
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    • These goals can be very small goals or big life goals. Setting lots of goals that are both small and big will help you develop a sense of achievement.
    • You could set a goal for yourself to join a new social group where you can meet new people who didn't know you when you were married.
    • Set new goals related to travel. Travelling solo can be scary, but many say that it is very rewarding.
    • If you want to, you can also set a goal related to when you'd like to start dating again (if you think you'd like to again).
  4. Make specific plans. There are new challenges you may also have to face now that you are divorced. Make plans about how you will deal with these new challenges so that you don't panic when, and if, they arrive.[22]
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    • For example, you may have to deal with feelings of loneliness. Make a plan about how you will deal with this. You could make a plan to get involved in local social groups, or decide who you can call to talk to when you feel lonely.
    • Another example involves finances. If you and your ex shared your income, you may need to make plans about how you will cover your costs. If you didn't work before, think about how you will find a job.

EditTips

  • Try to remind yourself that you'll get through it.
  • Don't be embarrassed to talk about your emotions with a trusted friend or family member, but try not to make it the focus of every conversation you have with this person.
  • Recently, some divorce-related mobile apps have sprung up. www.healthydivorceapp.com is one example of such an app.

EditWarnings

  • Don't put off dealing with your emotions. Putting your emotions off because you don't want to deal with them will cause even more damage. Do what you have to do: talk to someone, journal, sing, exercise, or paint. Do whatever it is that helps you get through your feelings.
  • Understand that even if you have the best of intentions, your ex may not make it possible to have a smooth divorce.

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How to Make Paleo Coffee Brownies

Posted: 18 Jan 2017 12:00 AM PST

Coffee brownies are absolutely delectable- a smoothly blended combination of coffee and chocolate. If you are gluten or grain intolerant, following the Paleo diet, or looking for healthier alternatives to gluten baking, then this brownie recipe is the perfect choice.

EditIngredients

  • 1 cup chocolate chips
  • 2 tablespoons palm or vegetable shortening
  • 2 tablespoons coconut oil
  • 1 ½ teaspoons instant coffee or finely ground espresso beans
  • 4 large eggs
  • 1 cup coconut sugar (3/4 cup is okay as well)
  • 1 tablespoon vanilla extract
  • ¼ teaspoon sea salt
  • ½ cup blanched almond flour
  • 2 tablespoons coconut flour

EditSteps

  1. Melt the chocolate chips in a saucepan over low heat. Pour in coconut oil and shortening. Stir continuously until smoothly blended and totally melted.
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    • Afterwards, preheat the oven to 350° F.
  2. Add the instant coffee/ground espresso beans. Combine with the melted chocolate, stirring until blended. The coffee may not dissolve all the way and make the mixture look slightly chunky, this is okay. Once finished, remove saucepan from heat and set aside.
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  3. In a separate mixing bowl, blend eggs, coconut sugar, vanilla and salt on low speed. Continue mixing until smooth and fully combined.
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    • Add in coconut and almond flour and mix until blended.
    • While you can use an automatic mixer, a handheld one is optimal.
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    Pour the melted chocolate into the mixing bowl. Mix on low speed until blended. It should turn brown, thicken, and resemble brownie batter.
  5. Pour into a 8x8 baking dish, either greased or covered with parchment paper. Get the remaining batter out of the bowl with a rubber scraper. Smooth the top of the mixture if needed.
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  6. Bake at for 25-30 minutes. When finished (toothpick should come out clean), remove from oven and let cool for about an hour.
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    • Serve.

EditTips

  • For maximum sweetness, go with one cup coconut sugar. To dial it back and taste more coffee, stick to 3/4 cup.
  • Be sure not to mix up almond flour with almond meal.
  • To achieve ideal brownie size, cut up the finished result into 3x3 or 4x4 chunks.

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