| How to Keep a Man Interested Posted: 07 Feb 2018 04:00 PM PST So the man you like is showing you signs that he's interested in you? Congratulations! That's half the battle! Now you want to know how to keep him interested. If he's a good fit for you, it shouldn't take much effort to keep him around. EditIn a Hurry? The easiest way to keep a man interested in you is to be the most confident version of yourself. Stay independent while you're in a relationship by keeping up with your hobbies and friendships, and give him the space to be independent too. Compliment him to show that you appreciate the things he does for you, and keep flirting with him to show him you're still interested. For tips on keeping him interested in the bedroom, keep readin'! EditHighlighting Your Personality - Be confident. Guys love it when their partner is confident and bold. Take good care of yourself, and make an effort to look as good as you feel. Focus on the things that make you special, and emphasize those qualities.[1]
- Tell him when you appreciate the things he does. Don't take him for granted. Let him know you really love how he stays calm in stressful situations, or that you especially appreciated that he cleaned the kitchen after he made dinner. Even if he doesn't say anything, this will make him feel good about himself.[2]
- Stay independent. You don't want to lose yourself in a relationship, and you don't want him to lose himself either. If you both stay independent by continuing to participate in your hobbies and spending time with your friends, you'll have more to talk about and you'll both respect each other more in the long run.[3]
- Surprise him with things he likes. As the two of you are getting to know each other better, make sure to ask him questions about what he likes. When he talks about that one thing that really makes his eyes light up, take note and try to find out more. Then, surprise him with a gift that shows you were listening, like a tee time at that ultra-exclusive golf course he mentioned.[4]
- Make him feel like a man. Making your guy feel like a big, strong man doesn't mean you have to pretend to be weak. Build him up by giving him compliments that make him feel good about himself, or let him be chivalrous by holding the door open for you. When you boost his ego, he'll want to spend more time around you.[5]
- Keep flirting with him. Flirting doesn't have to stop just because you start dating. In fact, it's more important than ever to keep doing the cute, flirty things that got him interested. Playfully touch him on the arm, brush up against him while you're doing dishes together, or give him that look that lets him know you're thinking of more than just what movie to watch.[6]
- Match his commitment level. If he's just coming around to the idea of being exclusive, you probably shouldn't be shopping for monogrammed towels. This can make him feel overwhelmed and he'll likely back away. If he's sending mixed signals, back off and let him come to you.[7]
EditAvoiding Common Pitfalls - Don't play hard to get too long. It's fine to be a little mysterious to keep your guy curious about you, but let him know you're interested. Playing games isn't a good way to start a long-lasting relationship, and he might lose interest if he has to work too hard to get your attention.[8]
- Be yourself. You should never pretend to be someone you're not just to get a guy to like you. Eventually, he'll discover if you're being dishonest. Be yourself, and don't try to change to be who you think he wants. If he doesn't like it, move on to someone who will.[9]
- Even if something seems small, be honest. It might not seem like a big deal to tell him you've always been a fan of his favorite football team, but when your mom casually mentions how much you hate football, he'll respect you less.
- If a man tells you he thinks you should change how you wear your hair, quit the job you love, or stop hanging out with your friends, he might not like you for who you are.
- Don't act jealous of his female friends. You want a guy who's comfortable around women, right? If you expect him to get along with your female bestie, you should take it as a good sign if he already has female friends. If he wanted to date them, he probably would be already. Instead of acting jealous, do your best to make friends with them too. He'll appreciate the effort.[10]
- Don't be clingy. Nobody wants to feel like their partner is insecure, so avoid clingy behavior. For instance, don't demand that your man engage in public displays of affection, especially if he's uncomfortable with it. Don't blow up his phone if you don't hear from him for a while — he's likely just busy and he'll be annoyed when he sees he has 18 missed calls from you.[11]
EditKeeping Him Sexually Interested - Wait until the timing is right to have sex. This is different for every couple, so just see what happens naturally. If you jump right into a sexual relationship before you know each other very well, he might not see the two of you as having a serious future. On the other hand, if you both really like each other and he's showing signs of wanting a relationship, you might find yourselves heading to the bedroom sooner rather than later.[12]
- You should wait to start a sexual relationship until you both feel comfortable with each other.
- Tell him when something feels good. Make sure your man feels like a stud in the bedroom by letting him know that you like what he does. Tell him when he does something that feels good or you like his attitude. Carry that mood outside of the bedroom by complimenting his manliness.[13]
- Never tease or criticize him about his bedroom performance. You wouldn't want it done to you, and men tend to be especially sensitive about their sexual prowess.
- Initiate sex at least some of the time. If you want to really get him fired up, be the first one to suggest doing the deed every so often. Try to find times when he's not expecting it. If you feel shy, you don't even have to say anything. Just take him by the hand, give him a sexy smile, and gently tug him towards the bedroom until he gets the idea. [14]
- If you're in the mood, say something like "I've been thinking all day about having your hands on me." If you don't have a lot of time, ask him if he wants to have a quickie during halftime or before work. No matter how you say it, he'll be excited that you made the first move.
- Make your sex life a priority no matter how busy your life gets. As you settle into a relationship, all kinds of distractions start to crowd in. If you eventually have kids together, that becomes even more true. Try to set the mood ahead of time to really enhance the moment. Schedule a romantic date night, send him sexy texts during the day, or set your alarm a little earlier so you have time for a morning quickie.[15]
- Don't ever let anyone pressure you into having sex if you don't want to. Sex is only fun if both parties are fully into it. If you don't want to have sex, whether it's the first time or you're in a long-term relationship, say no and stick to it. No one should ever pressure you into sex.[16]
EditMaintaining Interest after an Argument - Pick your battles. Don't start an argument every time he leaves his socks on the floor. Focus on what you like about him, rather than the things he does that annoy you. If he sees that you don't start arguments over petty issues, he'll be more likely to listen when you have a problem you want to talk about.[17]
- Try to resolve issues calmly. Try to have a conversation rather than an argument. Remember that this is a person you care about, and you're both working to build a life together. If a tense issue comes up that you need to talk about, try to have a mature discussion where you both are able to explain how you feel.[18]
- If an issue seems important enough to bring up, try to find the right time to mention it. Pick a time when you're both free of other distractions so you can focus on each other.
- Start the conversation with a positive statement about your partner, then follow with what's bothering you. Try saying, "I love that you're so excited about your new phone, but I feel a little frustrated that you didn't think you should talk to me before buying something that cost so much."
- If an argument starts to escalate, keep your tone of voice calm and use positive statements to cool things down. Say things like "I respect your independence; I just want to feel included in big decisions" or "You're usually very considerate so this surprised me."
- Take a break if things get out of hand. You might have a valid point to make, but a big factor in how much of it he'll listen to has to do with how you say it. If you can feel your emotions getting the best of you, take a 20-minute break, then come back and finish your discussion. Go for a walk or take a drive in your car, then come back and talk about it.[19]
- Don't stockpile your problems. Hanging on to hurt feelings can build up, and then when you argue you let it all out. Instead of dealing with one issue, you're arguing about several different things, and there's no way to actually fix them. Talk about problems as they come up. If there are a lot of unresolved issues in your relationship, you might need to evaluate whether you're with the right person.[20]
- Don't drag fights out. Everyone argues once in awhile, but do your best to let it go as quickly as possible. It's usually when emotions are running high that someone will feel the need to get that last hurtful jab in. Avoid hurt feelings (and possibly damaging your relationship for good) by allowing the argument to die down quickly.[21]
- Keep in mind that you don't always have to get the last word. To have a healthy relationship, sometimes you have to be willing to "lose" an argument. Once you've expressed your thoughts, let the conversation go. If you stay calm, he's more likely to think about what you had to say.
- Repair the relationship as soon as possible. When you're arguing, you might feel like the two of you have completely lost touch with each other. Reconnect with each other as soon as possible, even if you're both still feeling a little tender. Use humor or say something caring to break the mood. Try to find something you can do together to get back on the same page, like watching a movie.[22]
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| How to Replace Weather Stripping at the Bottom of a Door Posted: 07 Feb 2018 08:00 AM PST Weather stripping can be a great way to protect your home from drafts and reduce your energy costs in the winter. The stripping under your door should be replaced when it becomes dry, cracked, or starts to peel off. Felt or foam stripping is affordable and easy to install, and metal, rubber and vinyl typically last longer but cost a little more and can take a while to install. Choose a product that fits your budget, timeframe, and style. EditRemoving Your Current Stripping - Check your stripping to determine whether it needs replacing. Some types of stripping, particularly felt and foam, only last a few years. If your stripping is worn, cracked, or loose to the point that it doesn't properly seal the gap under your door, it may be time to replace it.[1]
- Pull the stripping off if it is attached with adhesive. If your stripping seems to be stuck on to the bottom of the door, or if you can't see any screws or nails holding it on, gently pull it off. If it doesn't come off easily, you may need to use a knife or flat-head screwdriver to help force it off.[2]
- Remove any nails or screws with a claw hammer or drill. If your stripping is attached with nails or screws, remove them using the claw end of a hammer or a drill set to reverse. If the nails or screws are still in good shape, save them to use later.
- The stripping may also be attached with staples, which can be removed either with a staple remover or a flat-head screwdriver.[3]
- Clean the bottom of your door thoroughly. Use soap and water and, if necessary, adhesive cleaner to thoroughly clean the bottom of your door. If it is extremely dirty or difficult to get to, you may want to take the door off its hinges for this step.[4]
EditTaking Measurements for New Stripping - Measure the width of every door you will install stripping on. If multiple doors need new stripping, take the measurements for all of them. You can do this by using a tape measure across the width of the bottom of the door. Write down your measurements.
- Remember, you are measuring the door itself, not the width of the doorway.
- Add up the width of all the doors you measured. Once you have measured every door you plan to buy new stripping for, add up all the measurements you took. Check your math a few times to make sure it's correct.[5]
- Add another 5-10% to factor in waste. It's always better to have too much than to have to go back to the store and buy more. Multiply the total width of all your doors by 1.05 or 1.1. This is how much you will buy from the store.[6]
- For instance, if you measure all the doors you're buying stripping for and their combined width is , you should multiply this number by at least 1.05, which would be .
- Measure the height of the gap under your door. This is especially important if you are using a different type of stripping than you had before. You want to make sure the product you buy will be large enough to fill the gap but not so large that you can't close the door easily.
- Make a note of your measurements. Check your math a few times to make sure it's correct. Then make a note of the number you came up with, so you will remember when you get to the store.
EditChoosing a Replacement Product - Use the same type of stripping you had if it's been working well. The best way to know if the stripping you buy will fit is to use the kind you already have. You can take the old stripping to the store to match it, or write down the brand and style if you know it. If your old stripping was not effective or to your liking, however, you should try something new.
- Choose felt or foam stripping if the door doesn't get used frequently. Felt and foam are both very low-cost and easy to install. However, they typically don't hold up for very long, so they may not be a good choice for doors that see a lot of wear and tear.[7]
- A slightly more durable option is reinforced foam or felt, which includes a metal or wooden strip to strengthen the foam or felt.[8]
- Buy tubular vinyl or rubber stripping for doors that are used often. If you want something that will last for at least a few years, vinyl and rubber are very durable. The tubular shape means that the material will expand or retract to fill the gap it's sealing.[9]
- Use a metal or wooden door sweep for a better look. This does not create the tightest seal, since it doesn't change shape to fill the gap, but is very durable and more attractive than other materials. It can even be painted to blend in with your door.[10]
EditInstalling New Stripping - Measure the amount of stripping you will need twice before cutting it. Even if you already took measurements before buying the stripping, measure your door again before cutting a piece to fit it. If you bought the type of stripping that slides onto the bottom of the door, you can slide on a long piece and mark where to cut it.[11]
- Cut the stripping with shears or tin snips. Foam and felt should cut easily with heavy scissors or shears. For metal or metal-reinforced stripping, you will need a metal saw or tin snips. Wood should be cut with a hand saw.[12]
- Read the directions on your stripping product. The stripping you bought will most likely have instructions on the packaging that explain how it should be installed. Read these carefully and make sure you have the tools necessary before starting.
- Some types of stick-on stripping should only be applied in temperatures above 20°F (-6.7°C). Your product's instructions should say whether this is the case.[13]
- Take your door off its hinges if you can't easily access the bottom. If you need to attach fasteners to the underside of the door itself, you may have to remove the entire door to access it more easily. Loosen the hinge pins by inserting a nail in the underside of each hinge and tapping it gently with a hammer until the hinge pin begins to move up. Then place the tip of a flat-head screwdriver under the head of the hinge pin and gently tap the bottom of the screwdriver with a hammer until the pin slides out completely.[14]
- Stick your stripping to the bottom of the door if it has adhesive. If you are using a stick-on foam or felt product, remove the backing that covers the adhesive part. You may want to do this a section at a time as you attach it to the door, so that the adhesive doesn't stick to anything else while you're working with it. Press it firmly against the bottom of your door, making sure to line it up properly before securing it.[15]
- Use nails or screws to fasten the stripping if it does not have adhesive. The product you bought should indicate whether it should be attached with nails, screws or staples. It may also have pre-made holes for the fasteners to attach through.
- Make sure the door still closes easily once the stripping is installed. The stripping should fill the gap under your door, but not make it harder to open or close. If it appears to be too big, you may want to start over with a different product.
- It is best to use the stripping that has screws that are not on the very bottom of the door, because once a screw gets loose, you have to remove the door to fix it.
- has screws on the back of the door, because you can install and adjust the insulation without having to remove the door.
EditThings You'll Need - Tape measure
- Claw hammer or drill for removing nails or screws
- Soap or household cleaning fluid
- Adhesive cleaner (if original stripping is stuck on)
- Weather stripping
- Scissors (if using foam or felt stripping)
- Tin snips (if using metal stripping)
- Hand saw (if using wood stripping)
- Flat-head screwdriver, long nail, and hammer (if removing door from hinges)
- Nails, screws or staples for fastening stripping according to instructions
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| How to Style a Moustache Posted: 07 Feb 2018 12:00 AM PST Nothing is quite as classy as a well-maintained moustache. Whether you want to make a fashion statement with your 'stache or want facial hair that will reflect your gruff and masculine demeanor, you can find a moustache style that fits your needs. With some hair trimmers and a little moustache wax, the options available to you are plentiful. If you can't quite choose a style, experiment with a few different ones until you discover the perfect match. EditStyling Basic Moustaches - Try a classic handlebar moustache. Let your moustache grow out until the ends reach around your upper lip. Dab some moustache wax to the upper end of your moustache and, using a comb, spread it down throughout the whole moustache. Part the moustache in half and, using your fingers, twist each end up.[1]
- Most people suggest that a proper handlebar moustache takes at least 6 weeks of growth.
- If you want to curl the ends, twist them around a pen or pencil for a tighter loop.
- Do a Chevron moustache for a simple look. Let your moustache grow out until it brushes your upper lip. Trim any longer hairs until the end of the moustache hangs at the top corners of your mouth. Whenever your moustache grows below your upper lip, trim it to keep the ends away from your mouth.[2]
- Actor Tom Selleck is the best-known person to sport a Chevron moustache.[3]
- If your moustache hair is coarse, a Chevron moustache can make it look neater.
- Style a cowboy moustache for its masculine charm. The cowboy moustache is a longer version of the Chevron moustache. The charm of this style comes with its scruffiness—grow out a Chevron moustache, then let the moustache keep growing over your upper lip until it just touches your bottom lip. Tidy the moustache with some trimming scissors as it grows over your bottom lip to avoid an overly-unkempt style.[4]
- One popular wearer of the cowboy moustache is Ron Swanson from Parks and Recreation.
- Grow a walrus moustache if you don't have sensitive lips. Walrus moustaches are like a combination of the handlebar and cowboy moustache. Let your moustache grow down past your bottom lip. Part your moustache in half, then apply wax to the moustache to keep it in place.[5]
- The walrus moustache takes at least 3 months for most people to grow.
- Teddy Roosevelt and Friedrich Nietzsche were well-known wearers of the walrus moustache.
- Choose a pyramidal style if you want a thick-yet-trimmed 'stache. As the name would apply, pyramidal moustaches are narrow on top and wide on the bottom. Grow your moustache out to just above your upper lip, then use a trimmer to make your moustache horizontally thinner on the top and slope the sides down to a wide bottom. Continue trimming your moustache as it grows past your upper lip to keep the shape tidy.[6]
EditTrying Advanced Moustache Styles - Try a pencil-thin moustache if you don't mind higher maintenance. Pencil-thin moustaches are easier to grow out and can be achieved after around a month for most people. Its styling regimen, however, is a little more involved than some styles. Keep the moustache trimmed above your upper lip and part it in half. Trim carefully to keep the bottom line of the moustache even, as crooked moustaches do not look as well-kept.[7]
- The ideal thickness of a pencil-thin moustache, as its name suggests, is about the same thickness as a pencil.
- Vintage film stars Clark Gable and Errol Flynn both sported a pencil-thin moustache.
- Do a horseshoe moustache if you can grow a full beard. Horseshoe moustaches are shaped like an upside-down "U" over your mouth and chin. To style a horseshoe moustache, grow a full beard and shave the cheeks and chin area below the bottom lip. Finish off the look by shaving your jawline and using moustache wax to keep the horseshoe in place.[8]
- Horseshoe moustaches pair well with soul patches.[9]
- American wrestler Hulk Hogan's facial hair is a popular example the horseshoe moustache.
- Try the Fu Manchu style if you want a fun, bold moustache. Begin your Fu Manchu moustache by growing the whiskers on your upper lip. Continue growing them down each side of your mouth, shaving all hair past the corners of the mouth to keep the mustache thin. Part the moustache in half and apply wax to point both ends down.[10]
- In essence, the Fu Manchu moustache is a thinner, more trim version of the handlebar moustache.
- Style a Dali moustache for an eccentric look. The Dali moustache is an artistic, somewhat comical take on the handlebar moustache. Grow your moustache until it reaches your upper lip, then continue growing the ends until they reach your chin. Part the moustache in half and, applying wax liberally to the moustache, twist both ends up and across your cheekbones.[11]
- Dali moustaches look best on oblong or oval-shaped faces.
- Pair your moustache with mutton chops if you grow thick sideburns. When a moustache is connected to a thick pair of sideburns, the style is called "friendly muttonchops." Grow a full beard, then shave all of the hair directly below your mouth. Keep the corners connecting your moustache and sideburns thin with a pair of trimmers.[12]
EditGrooming and Maintaining Your Moustache - Use a fine-toothed comb to brush your moustache. A moustache comb with many short and thin bristles will keep your moustache well-shaped. If you cannot find a specialty moustache comb, choose a fine-toothed one to achieve a clean and maintained style.[13]
- Cut your moustache when it is dry. Wet facial hair is heavier and tends to hang longer than it normally would. You may end up cutting too much if you wash your moustache before you cut it. Dry your moustache off before trimming or shaving your moustache.[14]
- Moisturize the skin underneath your moustache weekly. The skin under your moustache can get dry and prone to dandruff if it's not taken care of. Apply a face moisturizer to your fingers and rub it through your moustache. Rinse your moustache with water and pat it dry with a towel to keep your skin soft.
- Shampoo your moustache at least twice a week. Wash your moustache regularly to avoid getting food caught in the whiskers. Shampoo the moustache at least twice weekly to prevent unpleasant odors, and condition the moustache as desired to keep it soft.[15]
- Try not to scrub your moustache as you wash it. If you scrub too hard, you may rip out some hair follicles.[16]
- Regular hair shampoo works for shampooing your moustache.
- Use facial hair oil on your moustache daily. Beard or moustache oil will keep your 'stache shiny and your skin soft underneath. Rub a few drops of facial hair oil in your hands and work it into your moustache. If you have any residual oil left on your fingers, rub it into your cheeks and the rest of your face.
- How much oil you apply will depend on the thickness and size of your facial hair. Refer to the oil instructions for details.
- Visit a barber or stylist to try more advanced moustache styles. If you want to try a difficult moustache style or have a hard time keeping it up, most barbers can shape or style a moustache for you. Ask your barber about any maintenance tips so you can start styling it from home.[17]
- If you don't like a certain style after you've committed to it, grow your facial hair out and start over.
- Ask your friends and family members which style would look best on you if you can't commit to a look.
- Grow out a beard first before attempting some of the more advanced moustache styles to prevent experiencing the awkward growth phase.
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