| How to Quit Drinking Alcohol Posted: 10 Apr 2016 05:00 PM PDT You're looking at this page, which means you want to quit. That's the good news. The not-so-good news is that quitting is hard. It's a truth that is painful, and one shouldn't sugar-coat it. The great news is that medical technology, integrated communities, and effective psychological counseling have made it easier than ever to quit. If you feel that you drink too much, there are many benefits of sobriety: preventing strokes, losing weight, avoiding hangovers, and reducing the likelihood of liver disease are only a few beside a general uptick in overall health. If you or a family member struggles with alcohol or other substance abuse and need someone to talk to, see the Additional Resources section at the bottom of the article. EditBeginning to Quit - Talk to your doctor. If you choose to start the path to recovery alone, bear in mind that alcohol withdrawal can potentially be deadly. If you start experiencing severe withdrawal symptoms (panic attacks, severe anxiety, the shakes, rapid heart beat) you should seek immediate medical assistance. The condition could potentially deteriorate to delirium tremens, which is deadly, if left untreated.
- Don't feel like you need to quit alone. You are carrying a heavy burden, but plenty of people (including people with medical degrees) want to help you. It's often easier to quit with the help of medical intervention than it is to try it cold turkey.
- Doctors treating withdrawal from alcohol often prescribe benzodiazepines to help with symptoms.[1] Benzodiazepines, which include alprazolam (Xanax), clonazepam (Klonopin), diazepam (Valium) and lorazepam (Ativan), are psychoactive drugs used to calm anxiety and quell panic.[2] They are relatively safe and are rarely fatal when overdosed.[2]
- Change your attitude about quitting. Remember, you're not being forced to give up a good friend who has treated you well. Instead, you are finally ridding yourself of an enemy. Adjust your attitude so that quitting is made easier. Your better half wants you to quit; your selfish half wants you to stay the same.
- Try to pick some significant date to quit. Be ambitious, but reasonable. If you are very heavy drinker you must first slow down to avoid withdrawal symptoms (in this case it is best to have your doctor help you plan your quitting date).
- Get rid of all bottles, cans, etc. Don't feel that just because you are having guests over you need to offer them a beer, wine, or cocktail. It is perfectly fine to offer people tea, lemonade, coke, or the like.
- Feel your feelings. Cry when you need to. Laugh when you can. Eat when you are hungry. Sleep when you are tired. This is going to be really weird at first, but embrace it. You haven't felt your feelings for a long time. You will have a learning curve.
- Don't put yourself with people or in situations where you're likely to drink. There's an old saying about "Playgrounds and Playmates" — look at yours. You may need to leave some of your old drinking buddies and watering holes behind. That being said, it can be quite a revelation to find out that the friends you used to drink with were drinking with you only occasionally and were having two beers or two glasses of wine to your five.
- Don't do anything you don't feel ready to do. If going to the beach is a time when you drank a lot, don't go this year. If going to a certain friend's home for dinner is a time when you drank a lot, get a rain check this time. Protecting your sobriety is the most important thing you are doing right now. Take care of you! Don't worry about everyone else right now.
EditStrategies for Getting Sober - In the initial stage, reduce the quantity of alcohol intake. Rome wasn't built in a day. You're probably not going to kick your habit in a week, either. That's perfectly okay. Small victories beget bigger ones. In the beginning, simply try to reduce the amount of alcohol you consume. Going straight from a heavy drinker to cold turkey is a recipe for physical and emotional disaster.
- Imagine that due to excess alcohol, you are vomiting and having paralyzing headaches. If you've felt this way before while drinking, try to summon those memories. The pain you feel is good: it's a willingness to change your habits, and that's the first step.
- Even if you only reduce your daily drinking by one drink, it's a success. No step is too small at this point. A mistake here is getting comfortable only curbing your drinking by one drink. Keep working on reducing the alcohol you consume. Every week, cut down the total number of drinks by at least one. If you want to be more ambitious, try halving the number of drinks you allow yourself each week.
- Have food before you drink. Eating a meal before drinking will reduce your interest for drinking. It will also make it harder to get drunk. If you do this, don't trick yourself into letting your body get as drunk as you would have if you hadn't eaten — although very clever, that's what we call cheating!
- Drink a lot of water. Water will help keep you hydrated, make you feel better, and help flush out toxins from your body. Men are advised to drink 12 cups (3.0 liters) of water a day, and women are advised to drink 9 cups (2.2 liters).[3]
- Revise recipes that call for alcohol. This will make it harder for you to justify having alcohol in your house. Use non-alcoholic sparkling wine instead, or cut that part out of the recipe.
- Don't try to explain quitting to people. Most people do not drink like alcoholics do. They are not like us and therefore they cannot understand the fact that we truly have a problem with alcohol. Of course, there are others who have the problem too. Either way, people will say "You don't have problem!" When you do quit drinking, just say "No thanks, I'll have a Diet Coke — I'm trying to watch my weight." If you hang out with them very much they'll figure it out — and they'll think "Good for him!"
- If you are a scheduled drinker, change your routine. If you religiously start drinking right after work or when you go home, change your routine to involve another activity. Visit your parents or a friend. A little change of scenery will help break the cycle of addiction.
- Buy a planner and plan activities during the times when you would normally drink. Idle hands are the devil's workshop, right? If you plan activities with other people, it'll be harder to get drunk. If you write those activities down in a planner, you'll be more likely to do them.
- Don't give up on yourself. Many people will find excuses like, "I've been drinking for so long, it probably won't make any difference," or "I've tried so many times, I just can't do it." Some will feel hopelessly defeated if they find that they have something highly progressive like cirrhosis of the liver. Quitting drinking can extend life no matter what's going on. How long it extends is entirely up to you. Don't justify not quitting to yourself. Quitting justifies itself.
- You should remind yourself that if you were willing to try quitting so many times in the past, you have the ability to try again. There is no age limit nor is it ever too late to try to quit drinking. Even if the last thing that you do is quit, the victory of quitting pays for itself and gives hope to other people.
- Don't let guilt consume you. Some people will feel a sense of foolishness and guilt over not having done something sooner. Don't pass blame on anyone. Alcohol is the enemy. It has been whispering in your ear and telling you that it's more important than anything else in your life. There is nothing more important than you. You are of no use to anyone if you die. Hence, you must overthrow the oppressive rule of alcohol and start fresh, just as any country in revolution.
- Feeling guilty is only half of the equation. If you're just getting sober because you feel guilty, you're getting sober for the wrong reasons. You should be getting sober because you care about yourself, you care about the happiness of your family and friends (who care deeply about you), and you care about leaving an impact on the world. Guilt is only half the reason you should be quitting.
EditStrategies for Staying Sober - Buy a "sober wallet." Whenever you think about buying a bottle or a drink, put that amount of money in your sober wallet. It will literally shock you. Staying sober is all about seeing the tangible benefits of sobriety, which we too often don't get to see. Getting a sober wallet will help make those benefits more tangible.
- Use the money in your sober wallet for healthy stress relief: get a massage, visit to a day spa, join a yoga class. If you're not into those things, buy yourself a healthy distraction like CD box set, a new set of furniture, or some gifts for your friends.
- Buy a small piece of inexpensive jewelry as a reminder of your sobriety. Get a ring or bracelet, or henna your hand, or indulge in a special manicure to remind yourself that your hands no longer buy or touch alcohol.
- Take a B vitamin supplement daily for your first week off alcohol. Alcohol affects the ability of the body to absorb these vitamins, specifically thiamine.[4] Deficiency can cause severe cognitive impairment, including Wernicke-Korsakoff syndrome or wet brain.[5]
- Make lists. Without involving alcohol, make a list of ways to "do" all the things you did when you used to get drunk. Make a list of ways to celebrate. A list of ways to have a romantic dinner. A list of ways to relax and unwind. A list of ways to be sociable. Many people live fulfilled lives without using alcohol as a crutch; convincing every fiber of your body that it's possible makes that jump so much easier.
- If you are tempted, try to visualize what you might look like totally out of control. Do you really want to be that person again? Don't fall into the mindset that you're forever going to be that person. You will forever be an alcoholic, but that doesn't mean that you can't be a happy, sober, and well-adjusted alcoholic. That's your goal.
- Embrace the psychological benefits of sobriety. Embrace how good it feels to go to sleep at night without slipping into a coma, only to awaken at 3 in the morning with a desert for a mouth and a splitting headache. Embrace how good it feels to remember the people you met the previous night, and to recall their happiness at meeting you. Embrace how good it feels love yourself for who you are, not punish yourself for who you have become.
- Remember the reasons why you quit in the first place. Cherish your reasons. We don't always have reasons for acting the way we do — you may not have had very many when you were struggling — but when we do, they give us meaning and make us principled. That's a good thing. What are your reasons for staying sober?
- "I never want to miss work because I have a hateful hangover again."
- "I never want to embarrass my child in front of her friends again."
- "I never want to be ugly to my spouse because I've had one too many again."
- "I never want to get a DUI (again)."
- "I never want to drunk dial my friends and relatives and act like an idiot again."
- "I never want to hide bottles all over the house again."
- "I never want to have to pretend I remember what happened the night before when I don't recall anything after X o'clock again."
- "I don't want to lose this marriage the way I lost my first marriage to the ravages of alcohol again."
- Or "I wonder what it would be like to feel good again."
- Do not avoid all situations where you would normally drink. Instead approach them with a good attitude and remember that you can have a good time without drinking. On the other hand, if you know the temptation will be too great, don't put yourself in a situation where you are likely to slip up. Be smart about your limitations — everyone has them.
- Memorize inspirational thoughts. Memorize a prayer, poem or something (i.e. Hamlet's speech "To be, or not to be") to repeat to yourself when you are losing your mind; remembering and reciting it will keep your head together sometimes.
- Here are just a few inspirational quotes that you might find help you calm your thoughts:
- "Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship." - Buddha
- "Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt
- "I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles." - Audrey Hepburn
- Give yourself a prize for every day or every hour that you haven't had a drink. In the beginning, this makes a bigger-than-expected difference. Wrap the presents up (or don't, it's your call!) and give them to a friend or family member you trust for safe-keeping. Check in with your friend when you've completed one hour, or day, or week of sobriety and redeem your present. Allow your friend or family member to share in your joy.
- Learn meditation. Do meditation regularly especially in the morning. At the end of the session, vow not to drink alcohol. Remember your calm mind of meditation later when you feel like drinking. It will distract you.
- Pick up yoga! It will help you deal with stress and calm your mind. Best of all, yoga can be done in a group setting where you can feed off of the energy of other people. Embrace that positive energy.
EditReaching Out for Support - Ask for support. It may be the hardest part of your path to recovery, but telling your family or spouse what you are going through and what you are trying to achieve is a huge step. Like it or not, few people achieve sobriety alone, and even fewer sustain it alone. Don't feel inadequate about telling your family and friends what you are dealing with.
- Set guidelines for what you'd like your friends and family to accept. If you're game, ask them to take alcohol from you if they see you drinking it. Ask them to be your better half and help you get back closer to sobriety.
- Consider joining a support group like Alcoholics Anonymous or SMART Recovery. But do not feel guilty or defeated if you do not find AA to be a fit for you. It is not for everyone. Most people who quit do so without the help of AA. The vast majority of people who have quit drinking and put that phase of their lives behind them have done so by making a conscious commitment to themselves to stop drinking once and for all - and never look back.
- AA, however, can be extremely effective in helping you stay sober once you've decided that's the lifestyle you want to chase after. One study found that recovering patients attending AA and NA programs had an 81% abstinence rate, compared to a 26% abstinence rate among non-attendees.[6] That's a difference of over 50%.
- Consistency of attendance matters. The more you attend programs like AA, which teach total abstinence from alcohol, the less likely it is that you'll relapse.[7] Abstinence programs almost become a routine that members are addicted to, except that this addiction is sustainable and life-affirming.
- Abstinence programs fit you with a sponsor. A sponsor is someone, preferably not your "friend," who you can lean on whenever your sobriety is being threatened. A sponsor should be able to tell you when you're making a mistake and not mince words. Addicts with sponsors find it exponentially easier to stay sober than addicts without sponsors.[7]
- Watch as sobriety changes your life in front of your own eyes. After 90 days of complete sobriety, your whole outlook will be changed and your body will be in full recovery mode. You will likely have lost weight; you will likely feel more energized and happier about who you are. You will be like a completely different person.
- Don't be afraid to talk about your experiences. Anytime you feel weak, tempted, or pessimistic, reach out to someone you know you can trust. (It's really hard to swallow and talk at the same time.) Lean on them. Maybe it's a sponsor, maybe it's a friend; maybe it's mom. Whoever it is, learn how to open up to your feelings and overcome them instead of stifling your feelings and never truly dealing with them.
- Once you're ready, share your experiences with other people in need. Maybe you agree to talk to high-school children about your addiction and its aftermath. Maybe you write a heartfelt message and post it online. Whatever you do, try to pay all the help you were given forward. Even if you only get through to one person, you've done more than enough.
- Admit to yourself, and remember it, that there is absolutely nothing in your life more important than this one thing. Your life depends on it. All the people you love share in it. You, yourself, deserve it.
EditAdditional Resources (212) 870-3400 |row2 = National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence (800) 622-2255 |row3 = Al-Anon Family Groups (757) 563-1600 |row4 = Recovery.org (888) 599-4340 }} - Remember one day at a time don't think of future events just deal with today this will pass !
- Think about what you care about most. Imagine how it will be hurt by alcohol.
- Remember that giving up a lesser pleasure (getting drunk) for a greater one (health, better relationship or a clear conscience) is actually the easier path in the long run. It will all be worth it in the end!
- Visualise a sober you.
- Why alcohol is taking over your life is a question that will only be answered when you DON'T let it take over your life.
- Keep chocolate handy. Chocolate cravings are typical when problem drinkers quit. It will increase your endorphins and help reduce the urges you will feel.
- RESEARCH – Don't hesitate to see how your drinking may have physically impacted you. You'd be surprised with the amount of damage that can be done years before you ever see the symptoms. In almost ALL cases, the damage is irreversible. The best that most can hope for is to stop the progression of damage. Change your diet, control your weight, seek medical advice, and above all else, QUIT DRINKING COMPLETELY. You will feel stronger, healthier, smarter, happier and more importantly, you'll enjoy life a LOT more. There are several liver related diseases and complications. Take the time to review papers and studies. Reading them just once can help to keep you VERY sober. The longer you drink the more they should scare you. Fear can be a powerful influence and should be used to remind you of how foolish it was to drink at all.
- Use a nasty flavored mouthwash frequently. Swish it around in your mouth for 30 seconds to a minute every time you crave a drink. You will associate the flavor with alcohol and will soon stop.
- Do not try to make a habit to quit a habit.
- A chronic alcoholic who quits all at once can be at major risk for health related issues. Abruptly stopping many CNS depressants can lead to something called "delirium tremens". Within a few days of going "cold turkey" withdrawal symptoms such as anxiety and shakes can progress to tonic-clonic seizures and eventually status epileptics. This can be fatal. If you are a chronic heavy drinker, before going cold turkey consult your physician. They may be able to give you something (e.g. a benzodiazepine) along with a program to help cope with the acute withdrawal symptoms.
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| How to Get Rid of Poison Ivy Rashes Posted: 10 Apr 2016 01:00 AM PDT Poison ivy, and its pestilent cousins poison oak and poison sumac, can give you a wretched rash if come into contact with it. If you've suffered the unfortunate event of running into a poison ivy plant, try these methods for getting rid of the rash that accompanies it. EditTreating Immediately - Rinse your skin. If you are outdoors when the poison ivy strikes, head for a stream or the beach for some water. Rinse the area that came in contact with cold water, being careful not to touch it too much with your hands or other parts of your body. Use the coldest water you are able to find as it will help to close up the pores in your skin, whereas hot water opens them and allows more of the toxic oil in.
- If you encounter poison ivy near the beach, run to the water and use some wet sand to scrub at the area where the rash appeared. Then soak the rash in cold seawater.[1]
- Avoid showering your whole body to rinse the rash, as you may worsen your exposure by spreading the rash to other parts of your body.
- Dab on some rubbing alcohol. Pour a bit of rubbing alcohol onto a cotton pad and smear it over the affected area. Drowning out the skin with the rubbing alcohol may stop the spread of the poison, and prevent the rash from becoming even worse in the future. Do this as soon as you are able in order to prevent the rash from growing.
- Wash off with dish soap. The toxins from the poison ivy plant are an oil, and therefore won't be able to be removed completely with just water. Use a dish soap that advertises breaking up oil to wash the affected area. The dish soap should help to minimize the spread of the poison and limit the rash.
- Put on an ice pack. Closing off your pores will keep your skin from absorbing the toxic oils. Hold a cold compress or an ice pack to the rash to constrict the pores. Doing this will also feel soothing on the blistered skin.
- Remove any clothes that came in contact with the poison. If your clothes are covered in the oil from the plant, touching them later could spread the rash to other parts of your body. Remove any clothes near the area and wash them immediately, separate from any other laundry.
- Crush up some jewel weed. If you are outdoors, look for jewelweed - a plant that often grows near poison ivy and is a natural cure for the toxins. It can be recognized as a low growing leafy bush with yellow and orange bell shaped flowers. Crush up some of the weeds to form a paste, and then smear them across the rash. Leave the paste for as long as you can, replacing with a paste of fresh jewelweed when it becomes dried out.[2]
EditTreating at Home After Exposure EditKitchen cupboard remedies - Make a paste of baking soda. This common household item will work to draw out the poisons in the skin and sooth the rash once it has already formed. Mix baking soda with a bit of water to form a paste, and then dab it onto the rash. Let it set until it dries out, and then rinse off with cool water. This process can be repeated several times daily until the rash disappears.
- Wash with vinegar. Vinegar works many wonders, including helping to heal a poison ivy rash. Use regular or apple cider vinegar and pour it over the area. Let it sit on the rash until it evaporates. You can also pour vinegar onto a cotton ball and dab it onto the rash for a more specific location.
- Put on some cold coffee. Brew up a cup of regular coffee and let it cool or place it in the refrigerator. Pour it onto the rash or use a cotton pad to dab it on. Coffee contains an acid that works as an anti-inflammatory, which soothes the rash and brings down any swelling and redness.
- Take an oatmeal bath. Oatmeal has long been used as a skin-soothing agent, and can be added to a bath to create a relaxing soak. Buy an oatmeal bath product or grind a cup of oatmeal in your blender and add it to a bath full of warm water. Soak in the mixture for 20 minutes to remove the itch of the rash.
- Take a tea bath. Fill a hot bath with 6-8 bags of black tea. Black tea contains tannic acid, an anti-inflammatory that can help soothe a poison ivy rash. Soak in the tea for 20 or more minutes for the best results.
- Use dish detergent, then oats. Wash the infected area with Dawn Dish detergent or any other brand that breaks up oils. Rinse the area with a lukewarm water, followed by cool water, to close up the pores. Apply witch hazel solution after it dries. Then, take a knee high sock or stocking and put some oatmeal inside it, tying it shut. Heat a small amount of water for about 1 minute. Insert the oat-filled knee high, end down into the hot water. When this has soaked a couple of minutes, squeeze out and dab onto affected areas. This will work as a drying agent. This method works well.
EditBathroom cabinet remedies - Take an antihistamine. Because a poison ivy rash is an allergic reaction, taking an allergy pill should help a little. Pills containing diphenhydramine (such as Benadryl) can be purchased over the counter and ease the itching and the spread of the rash. [3]
- Apply a corticosteroid cream. You can buy steroid creams over the counter at your pharmacy, and they should help ease the allergic reaction that causes the rash. Apply it a few times a day for the first few days, then less often as the rash fades.[4]
- Use calamine lotion. If the itching is unbearable, smear on some of this popular lotion. Calamine lotion is FDA-recommended for poison ivy rashes, and can be reapplied a few times a day.[5]
- Apply anti-itch cream. This doesn't destroy the oils but help resist scratching the rash which will make it spread. Resisting scratching at the rash is a key in destroying it. Apply once-three times a day. You should be able to find anti-itch cream at your local pharmacy or drugstore.
EditHerbal remedies - Use witch hazel. This astringent can be dabbed onto skin to help tighten the pores and soothe the itching. Use a bit daily to expedite the healing process of your poison ivy exposure.
- Try tea tree oil. Another anti-inflammatory, putting a bit of pure tea tree oil on your rash will bring down the swelling and redness. Do this several times a day or whenever the itching is bad to get a bit of relief.[6]
EditOut in nature remedies - Apply cold sulfur. In a river or creek, sulfur can be identified by a white or bluish color in the river floor. Also look for white crabgrass rather than green. Sulfur drains the color from the grass and turns it white. It can be also be found in some springs. Sulfur is a mineral that can destroy the poison ivy oils. Apply two or three times a day or when the itching feels unbearable.
- Apply aloe vera. This cactus-like plant is full of a gel typically used to treating sunburns. It works to add relief to itchy-burning sensations, similar to those caused by poison ivy. Break open a piece of a real plant and squeeze out the gel, or buy a bottle from your local drugstore, making sure that it is at least 95% aloe vera. Rub a coat over the rash and let it cool the skin.[7]
- Apply Manzanita leaf tea. The tree/bush has mostly red, smooth bark and has dark green leaves. Put the leaves into a pot of boiling water and leave there for 5-10 minutes. Strain the leaves and cool before applying.
- Learn to recognize poison oak, poison ivy, and poison sumac to avoid coming into contact with them again in the future.
- Mix baking soda and water as a poultice, wrap cloth around it (make sure it isn't too tight!), and let it sit for eight hours. This will take away the red bumps. You can also put hydro-cortisone on it so you don't scratch it.
- Try not to touch the rash.
- Rubbing alcohol also works very well.
- If your pets came into contact with the poisonous plants, make sure to wash them immediately. The oily toxins can remain on their fur and spread to other things when they come into contact.
- Scratching makes it worse. If you're child has poison ivy, cover the affected area in Benadryl cream, or Vaseline, then wrap it up in gauze. It helps keep the kids from accidental scratching. It's best to do it at night, but it can be done anytime. It also clears up in a few days or a little more depending on how severe the reaction is.
- If you can't stand the itch, then put oatmeal in water and make into a paste, and then spread over your body.
- If you need drying of the skin, you can try mineral spirits.
- Don't pour alcohol onto the rash.
- You can try putting Zija oil on the rash.
- Never burn poison ivy. The smoke from a burning poison ivy plant contains the oil and if in the lungs, can cause serious problems. If you think you've done that, see a doctor immediately!
- Most poison ivy rashes can be treated at home, and odds are you'll be fine with home remedies, but a few extreme cases need medical attention. If you're experiencing any of the following, make an appointment with your local clinic or general practitioner:[8]:
- Rash on your face or genitals
- Blisters that are oozing pus
- Fever above 100°F (or 38°C)
- A rash that persists for more than 2 weeks
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